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Our World of Custom, Independent, International Travel

Featuring Quality Hosted Lodgings in a large number of set destinations.

• 1-Week Full Packages    • Ground Arrangements Only    • Lodging Only

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CUSTOM EUROPEAN TRIP PLANNING 

Do you have a unique travel goal for Europe? Home At First researches and custom-plans individual itineraries to your specific dream destinations, with all the lodgings, flights, and ground transportation needed to accomplish your goals.

WE CUSTOM-PLAN DREAM TRIPS TO:

• England • Scotland • Wales • Ireland • Isle of Man

• Austria • France • Germany • Greece • Italy

• Netherlands • Portugal • Spain • Switzerland
• Iceland • Denmark • Finland • Norway • Sweden

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A Letter from Home…

Are You Rich?

          “I’ve been rich, and I’ve been poor, and rich is better.”
          I like the quote, which I first heard as a college student. It was then attributed to Mae West, which probably added a certain suggestive sly humor to its audacious obviousness. Later, when I heard the same quote attributed to Sophie Tucker, its flavor changed from daring to simply loud, and lost its appeal. Now I read that many others – including silent film actress Fannie Brice – all have been tied to the quote’s origins. So, I’m back to square one – I like the quote but am completely unsure of its origin.
          Equally, I’m not sure of its application. As a personal financial statement, its value addresses the practical economic realities of human existence, especially in modern times. Money, for many, is the root – not just of evil, not just of success, not just of lasting fame. Accumulating money becomes the point to living. One judges and is judged by one’s accumulated wealth. One’s legacy is tied inseparably to one’s bottom line. Ascetics, hermits, and other renouncers of personal riches who seek meaningful lives apart from possessions, power, and press are viewed as outliers, oddballs, or simply as the exceptions that prove the rule: trading all of one’s potential to gain riches for a life of poverty and suspect hygiene convinces most observers to throw their hats in with the Kardashians and not with the Gandhis.
          Organized religions often speak ill of wealth. But many religious organizations display their ostentation zealously. The Vatican is much less about sackcloth and ashes than it is Michelangelo and Bernini. St. Francis and Buddha are revered for their renunciation of lives of material pleasures and their acceptance of lives of basic subsistence. But despite our admiration for these spiritual and intellectual models, few of us have known anyone who has purposely made this lifestyle trade. Moreover, almost none of us believes that anyone who is homeless is seeking enlightenment.
          If being rich is the better option in the minds of most moderns, then what defines rich? Many of us know of people for whom their estates, possessions, and bank accounts are burdensome complications. Tales of fame and fortune being ruinous to character are commonplace throughout literature, probably because they surprise us as unexpected, convince us we are correct believing that too much of anything is probably bad for you, or let us enjoy a healthy feeling of Schadenfreude. If comedy celebrates common people achieving unexpected success, then tragedy often recounts how the mighty have fallen.
          If being rich means courting disaster — there’s nowhere to go but down — then maybe being rich isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
          But maybe being rich isn’t just about money, power, and fame. Maybe being rich is just as much about being unsatisfied, unfulfilled, unsure, and unrecognized, while at once being curious, challenged, and daring, and then becoming intrigued, inspired, and amazed. But most of all being rich is about being and staying positive.
          I’m rich. I explore the world and wonder at what I find. I sample the prized foods and traditional customs offered me by welcoming strangers I meet. I share conversations with people whose different lifestyles and locations introduce me to new points of view. I see marvels on the largest and smallest scales. I am honored by the acceptance of others in their homes. I walk in beauty – other persons’. And they share it willingly.
          I live simply. I require little. What money I have provides for my practical necessities. I take great pleasure whenever the world reveals its mysteries to me. And I seek opportunities for that magic to occur.
          I’m rich. I travel.

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How to Get Rich: Independent, International Travel, Simplified.

          We anoint 2024 with a theme we believe fundamental to Home At First travelers, and the motivation behind independent, international travel: “Life, Simplified.”

What’s this all about?
          Modern life bombards our senses with a daily diet of stresses — health, financial, political, and more — as we attempt to navigate across a minefield of electronic distractions, social obligations, career demands, and family & social obligations.
          For for many people travel offers a way to temporarily take up residence in a life we would like to lead, a life optimized, a life simplified.
          We spend our lives searching for our happy places, where our interests are piqued, our relationships renewed, our energies invigorated, places where our numbed senses — paralyzed by the stresses of everyday life — reawaken with the thrill of discovery.

Travel is our purposeful search for happy places. We take the minimum with us: a few clothes, almost no food or drink, only basic medications. Half of us take mandatory make-up. Most of us — and this only for the past 25-30 years — bring one or more electronic lifelines (phone/camera with/without laptop). Otherwise, we abandon much of our lives: our cars, our houses/apartments, our work schedules, our hobbies, our shopping rituals, our social circles, and we deregulate our religious practices, eating habits, TV watching, & our sleep timing.
          In place of these vacated routines travel fills the vacuum, and does so according to whim, impulse, curiosity, instinct, and native urge. When traveling, we sleep, eat, drink, and bathe not according to the rigid schedules of our real lives, but only when we physically must or when we casually want. Almost nothing is done by rote repetition.
          Nearly everything is new, unfamiliar, and interesting, as when we were children or young adults just starting out. And our attention to the details of this newness brings us alive. Food tastes bigger; smells are more intense; colors appear more vibrant; new sounds command our attention as new sights turn our heads and demand focus. Even the tactile requires careful inspection: the feel of leather, of fabric, of stone, of wood. Suddenly we are in Wonderland where things apparently familiar are markedly different and draw us to them.

Overwhelmed with newness, travelers have little time for complexity. When green is suddenly greener, water sweet, morning dew bejeweled, and lingering evening light soft, there’s no time for incestuous political squabbles on TV, the neighbor’s dog on the lawn (again), rushing to the drugstore before it closes, or getting that coveted 8AM tee-time. When everything is new/weird/attractive/confusing — from the language you hear (I wish I paid more attention in high school French class), to the signage you don’t understand (no parking? one-way? pedestrians only?), to the food that smells inviting but you’re not so sure of (snails? goat? wild boar? horse? whale? reindeer?), to tipping (yes? no? when? where?), to finding aspirin (you mean they don’t sell aspirin over the counter in drugstores?!) — life becomes simple again. Successful travelers experience the delight of the new, the euphoria of the different, and the fresh-start joy of living simply.

Importantly, living simply and traveling well — and affordably — begin with a phone call or email to Home At First.

— Ron Fahnestock, Editor

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